The Episcopal Church USA moves one step closer to open schism, reports the Washington Post today. This part caught my eye:
(For conservatives troubled by the consecration of Gene Robinson), the “ultimate goal.. is a replacement jurisdiction . . . closely aligned with the majority of world Anglicanism.” A spokesperson for conservative Episcopalians said that means traditionalists hope their network of parishes will supplant the Episcopal Church USA as the recognized Anglican offshoot in the United States.
Sigh.
And on a closely related subject, here is a letter from Rev. William J. Fleener, an Episcopal priest for almost half a century, written to conservative theologian and blogger Kendall Harmon. It’s a terrific meditation on marriage, gender, and sexuality, and I agree with almost everything Fleener says. Here are a couple of gems:
I don’t think any Christian theologian invented the phrase, “and they both lived happily ever after.” At least I hope not. That phrase is a lie now. Maybe when marriages were entered into with few expectations, most marriage relationships looked about the same after 22 years as they had looked after 22 days. Maybe for some that worked. The history of concubinage and adultery tells me that for many that didn’t work. For that I now thank God! No, I don’t laud concubinage and adultery, but I see in those processes a deep reality that I believe to be the will of God.
Human relationships cannot be “stable” - a word that used to be one of the highest compliments that could be used to describe a marriage. I know what a stable smells like! Stables smell that way because there is decay going on there. Human relationships that are not growing are already in decay. They may not be giving off noticeable odors yet, but they are in decay.
Good stuff! And then this:
Our “theology” (if it deserves that word!) of homosexuality has been “traditionally” based on a set of stereotypes. We have assumed that one of the members of the gay or lesbian couple took the male-dominant-initiating role and the other took the female-subservient-receiving role.
Those of us who have observed healthy gay and lesbian relationships know the stereotypes are no more true there than in healthy, growing heterosexual relationships. A deep complementarity is present in wholesome same-sex and in wholesome opposite-sex relationships, and the very health of the relationships is found in the processes by which each party learns from the other’s strengths and deepens personal growth in those complementary areas of life, not in a “stability,” whereby either party stays the half-developed person he or she was on entry into the relationship.
Look, I’ve been divorced more than once. I’ve long since “given up my seat in judgment city”, as they say. But Fleener — who has been married to the same woman for 43 years — really, really, really gets it.
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