New Year, and Home

Happy 2006 to all!

Friday night, my wife and I got back from a long, happy, and delayed honeymoon.   We were married back in early September, but because of my teaching duties, could not go away until the end of the semester.

We spent time these past few weeks in Manhattan, South Africa, and Dubai. 

While we were not at all impressed with Dubai, we loved South Africa.   The nation gets a lot of bad press, especially about crime and enduring racial disharmony.  While we hardly can count ourselves experts on the country, we saw a remarkable series of success stories.  We saw a South Africa that has clearly come a very long way in a very short time, filled with people who are remarkably enthusiastic about the future.  In the places where we stayed, we were struck and moved by the apparent lack of bigotry.   We talked with folks from a wide variety of racial backgrounds, and noted that in several of the places we visited, non-whites held superior positions to whites.  With each of our tour guides, I found that there was exceptional openness on the subject of race, apartheid, and history — and best of all, there was a striking enthusiasm about the prospects for continued growth and improvement in South Africa.

I won’t say I’m a true world traveler, but I’ve been around a bit, and my wife and I agreed that on the five continents we’ve visited in our lives, we’ve never encountered such warmth as we did from such a large number of South Africans.   I’d go back in a heartbeat, and we’re eager to return and make a longer visit.

On the other hand, Dubai was a disappointment.    A sense of greed and callousness seemed to envelop the whole city, and frankly, it marred our visit.   In its sprawling size, its constant construction, and its bizarre and ostentatious architecture, it reminded me of my least favorite American city, Las Vegas.  I find Vegas seductive, but I always leave feeling depressed and dirty (and trust me, the worst thing I’ve done there is play the cheap slots.)  I felt exactly the same way about Dubai.   In addition, we noted that most service industry jobs in Dubai seem to be held by East Indians and Filipinos, many of whom were openly treated quite poorly by the staff in our hotel and elsewhere.  I saw and heard far more blatant racism in forty-eight hours in Dubai and its neighboring emirate, Sharjah, than in nine days in South Africa.   This was our first visit to the Middle East, but I don’t feel as if I got much real exposure to Arabic culture in the Emirates.

And of course, we both share a real love for New York City, even in the cold.  My wife and I got in lots and lots of walking, eating, and museum-ing.  But could I survive an entire winter there?  Doubtful.  All of the layering, the taking off and putting on of scarves and gloves and hats absolutely exhausts me.  I’m sure you get used to it, right?

We took hundreds of photos, and though most are "friends and family only", I’ll get a few up over the next week or so.

I’m not going to mention the places we stayed here on the blog, but if you’re interested, drop me an e-mail and I’ll send along recommendations.

It’s good to be home, and I’m looking forward to a very busy and very exciting 2006.  I’m grateful to all the readers who stopped by and kept things reasonably civil here in my absence, and I’ll do my best this year to keep folks entertained and provoked.  There are a lot of blogs out there, and I’m immensely grateful to those of you who take the time to read mine.

12 Responses to “New Year, and Home”


  1. 1 Rob

    Welcome back and happy honeymoon!

  2. 2 Stentor

    All of the layering, the taking off and putting on of scarves and gloves and hats absolutely exhausts me.
    Think of it as cross-training.

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  4. 4 lorie

    Sounds like your holidays were busy and exciting - a very happy New Year to you and your family, Hugo!

  5. 5 Rainbow

    Boy, you really can’t relate to the working class or single mothers that never get a paid vacation at all, much less 3 weeks around the world. No wonder you don’t understand why families have their children at home while going to CC instead of sending them away to a 4 year college out of town. It is known as no money and no freedom from constant toil. Maybe you should introduce yourself to the working class in this country. You don’t have to go all the way to Dubai.

  6. 6 Hugo

    Rainbow, good fortune (of which I admit I have frequently been the recipient) does not automatically correlate to blithe disregard for the realities of poverty and struggle. You’re also making some whopping assumptions about my wife’s background.

  7. 7 kate.d.

    welcome back hugo! manhattan around christmas time just cannot be beat. i am jealous.

  8. 8 Rainbow

    Somehow I doubt you have any clue what it is to be poor, just like I will never have a clue what is like to have a decent roof over my head or to live without the daily fear of homelessness and dying for lack of medical care. You should have visited me when you were in New York, probably not the areas where you and the newly crowned princess would visit. Good-looking women have always had the chance for upward mobility.

  9. 9 Hugo

    In the midst of all of your despair, rancor, and self-pity, Rainbow, how do you access the Internet?

  10. 10 Rainbow

    If you are ever plunged into poverty and abuse Hugo, I hope you enjoy being laughed at by people who are privileged. Do you kick homeless, passed out drunks on the street? or only when no one else is looking? You sound like you are just bursting with compassion. Next time you are in New York give me a call and learn what life is like for the nonprivileged. The pleasures of your vacation were bought by the mistreatment and low wages of the workers.

  11. 11 Rainbow

    Most of us consider it lucky to have scarves, hats and gloves, especially when the pipe break and there is no heat in the run-down apartments.

  12. 12 amy

    Welcome back! Sounds like a fantastic trip. If I ever get to go to South Africa, I’ll definitely email you for recommendations.

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