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Waving, not saluting: more on Floyd Landis, the flag, and serving two masters

My hits have skyrocketed today after "reddit.com" and the Tour de France blog linked to my post this morning about Floyd Landis and the national anthem.  A reader sent me a link to this photo of Landis riding on the Champs Elysees carrying the American flag, asking if this action doesn’t contradict my point this morning about Floyd’s Mennonite principles.

Actually, carrying the flag on a bicycle and refusing to place the hand over the heart during the national anthem are both quite consistent with Mennonite principles.   To be a Mennonite, classically, is to believe that citizenship in the Kingdom trumps national allegiances.   In practice, that means refusing to swear oaths of obedience to any temporal authority; it means refusing to salute flags or to genuflect before earthly kings.  But there’s an important difference between saluting or pledging allegiance to the flag on the one hand, and waving it on the other!

One can be a radical Christian (a phrase many Mennonites apply to themselves) and love America!  It is one thing to love America, another to pledge solemn allegiance to it.  To wave the flag can be an expression of affection for one’s native land, akin to waving the banner of one’s university or favorite football team.  (I once had a very large Cal banner that I waved with great enthusiasm.)  Floyd Landis may be a Mennonite, but America is the nation of his birth — there is nothing in Anabaptist theology that suggests he can’t be fond of, even proud of, his country. 

When Italian football fans the world over waved the red, white, and green after their World Cup triumph, they did so to celebrate a sports victory that made them proud.  They did not do so to express any particular loyalty to the modern nation-state known as Italy.  (Many Italian-Americans who madly waved that flag — and there were lots of ‘em in Los Angeles two weeks ago — probably have never heard of Romano Prodi, the current prime minister. They had no intention of promising loyalty to his government.) Theirs was a celebration of cultural pride, not a promise of fealty or patriotic commitment.  Without knowing his mind, but knowing his upbringing, I am fairly sure that Landis carried the Stars and Stripes around Paris in that spirit.

Though I have left the Mennonite Church, I retain the Anabaptist commitment to refuse to swear loyalty to nation-states.  (I am a dual national with a UK passport, but with all respect to Elizabeth Regina, I am not her majesty’s subject.  "No king but Jesus"…)  When the national anthem is played at sporting events (and I go to lots of sporting events) I stand respectfully.  I don’t draw attention to myself by remaining sitting — that would be ostentatious.  I don’t put my hand over my heart, however, and I don’t sing.  When they say the pledge of allegiance at faculty senate meetings, I stand with my hands clasped; my head lowered, my lips closed.   I try to be as inconspicuous as possible, not wishing to give offense, but unwilling to pledge allegiance to anything other than Christ my king.   Only once have I been quietly asked by a colleague about my stance, and I gave her a simple and respectful answer which she accepted.

I have a sincere affection for this, the land of my birth, and I honor the lawful authorities who wield temporal power within it.  This is a country of great physical beauty, filled with people for whom I have an easy and genuine affection.  I will give my taxes to Caesar, obey his traffic laws, even vote in his elections.   It is possible to be a Christian and an American, but it is not possible to swear fealty to both Christ and Caesar unless one believes that the demands of each are always congruent.   Knowing that they aren’t always compatible, I choose to pledge loyalty only to the one I intend not to betray should conflict arise.

Tuesday night notes and links: three fun photos, some good art, and a poem that made me cry

It’s a quiet Tuesday night here on the home front; a rare night for me to relax at home and putter.  I’ve got some serious posts coming up later this week on everything from lesbians in women’s sports to encouraging young men to challenge sexism amongst their peers, but I’m not in the mood for anything serious tonight.

Some notes and links:

I’ve got three new, very special photos of Matilde up in this album.  Check out this one of her in full descent or this one of her in full dust bath flip.  And, since yesterday was my birthday and the second anniversary of Matilde’s near-death experience, consider making a tax-deductible donation to her charity.   Exciting news about our work coming soon!

Lynn has a good post up about women, visuality, beefcake, and porn.  It touches on many issues I’ve been dealing with, and asks some interesting questions.  Please be civil when commenting over there.

Slate magazine linked to my post this morning on politics and virtue.  Both evil_fizz and Glenn Sacks sent me notes to let me know about it, and I’m grateful to both of them.

One of my most memorable and talented students in recent years, Courtney Raney, is an artist, and I’ve been meaning to link to her website.  Check out some of what she’s done here and here; it’s terrific.

If there’s a male blogger in the blogosphere on whom I have the famous massive blog crush, it’s surely Chris Clarke.  He shares with me a passion for justice and a love for the hills of the East Bay Area in Northern California.  He’s ten times the writer I’ll ever be. He put up a poem this past weekend about a baby squirrel he found. It’s a beautiful and heartbreaking piece about the choice between sentimental interference with nature on behalf of one little creature, and respect for the harsh but wise choices of the natural ecosystem.  At the end of the poem, Chris does what I would not have done.  When I first read it, I wept, and I cursed him.  When I read it a second time, I nodded my head and honored him for his courage, his humanity and his humble recognition of our rightful powerlessness. 

Enough for tonight.  I’m going to watch some WNBA (Storm vs. Comets) on ESPN2 and try and figure out who the heck to vote for in the California Democratic primary for secretary of state and lieutenant governor.  I welcome suggestions from those who know more about these things than I.

Boobs on the blog: some thoughts on Diana Blaine and topless feminists — UPDATED

From Bitch Ph.d, I’ve learned about the interesting case of Diana Blaine, who teaches gender studies at nearby USC. 

I ought to have heard of her before; we’re about the same age, we both have doctorates from UCLA, and we both teach gender studies.  But the feminist community is both busy and parochial, and I am always learning about new and fascinating folks in our world.  What’s got Blaine noticed these days is that a few of her students discovered that from her blog, she links to her Flickr photo site where she has a couple of topless pictures of herself.  The story got picked up by Channel 4, the Los Angeles NBCTV affiliate, and it’s landed Professor Blaine in a bit of hot water. 

Even though Blaine is untenured,the university, I am happy to say, seems to be backing her to the hilt; the blog is her personal web page and not maintained on USC’s servers.  Both her academic and personal freedom mean that her job is not in jeopardy.  (And may I say that I am, reluctantly, greatly admiring of the growing progressive majority at the University of Southern California.  A school once thought of as a mecca for the suntanned, the privileged, the vapid, and the reactionary has become renowned for its commitment to diversity and its particularly strong program in gender studies.  Almost makes me want to say "Fight On for old ‘SC!"  Of course, being married to an alumna who bleeds cardinal and gold helps.)

Here’s a lengthy excerpt from one of Blaine’s posts about her decision to post semi-nude pictures of herself (note, her blog is worksafe):

The couple of conservative USC students who have dedicated themselves to attacking me clearly grew frustrated at my refusal to react to them, so they upped the ante and contacted the media about my nudie pics. One station bit, and voila, we have a scandal. It was fun watching the broadcasts about me throughout the day as I do what I am trained to do as a gender scholar, interpret media representations; it’s just in this case I was the subject…

Anywho, first we can see the obvious puritanical dynamic that the United States has had since, well, the Puritans came over from England where their particular brand of fanatical Christianity proved too much even for the fanatical Protestants breaking away from the Catholic Church in the Reformation. The Puritans loathed the body and tried to exert strict controls on sexuality, particularly female–read The Scarlet Letter for all you’ll ever need to know about this. We continue to have their reactionary discomfort with the body, and so we too find it an object of obsessive fascination. Basically, by making nudity taboo, we’ve guaranteed its centrality. As Feminist Scholar Susan Griffin notes, the priest and the pornographer operate on the same value system–both mark human sexuality as disgusting, and then one says "turn your eyes away," while the other says, "look here, look here!"

So these kids were hoping to capitalize on our Puritanical sense that we should be ashamed of something as banal as our own bodies, trying in effect to mark me with the Scarlet Letter. "Ummmm, let’s tell on her," is in effect their motivation (which my husband has aptly branded "juvenile"), and that way we can get her in trouble with patriarchal authority, in this case the administration at USC. That will show her for disagreeing with us! Put her in her place!

Now we need to take responsibility for our part in this. These young people were raised by us, and we are the ones who have taught them that they should have revulsion for nudity and sexuality. We have also taught them that it’s appropriate to police women’s sexual behavior, that they have the privilege to interfere in female self-determination. As Americans, we have failed them, and I hope that we can continue to evolve as a culture in a direction that is more life-affirming and less fear-based. I have dedicated my life’s work to this type of education, one that shows the history of and contexts for our current beliefs and actions and therefore gives us the power to change, should we so choose.

There’s a lot to digest there from a feminist perspective.  First off, the historian in me feels compelled to shriek at the notion that The Scarlet Letter offers an accurate portrayal of Puritan life!  Hawthorne wrote in 1850, some two centuries after the zenith of American Puritanism — and he was, to put it mildly, no historian.  Want to understand Puritan sexuality in all of its contradictions and complexity?  My good buddy Richard Godbeer (formally at Riverside, now at Miami) has the book on the subject: Sexual Revolution in Early America.  Read it, and you’ll see how wrong Hawthorne was.

But I’m not here to quibble with Blaine’s reference to Puritanism, even if it is a bit inaccurate.  In the main, she’s right that we live in a culture that is extraordinarily ambivalent about nudity and sexuality.  She’s right too that the young (apparently male) students who "turned her in" for her topless pictures were trying to "police her sexuality" in a way that is fundamentally very traditional.

Clearly, Diana Blaine is doing her best to "match her language and her life".  In line with many "sex-positive" feminists, she argues for a radical revisioning of sexuality and gender.  She is highly critical of traditional sexual mores, perhaps particularly because those mores have alternately repressed and exploited women.  And on her eponymous blog, she’s going to make it clear — in her words and pictures — that she lives a  life that is fully congruent with her expressed personal and intellectual values.    In that sense, she’s doing what all good feminist teachers do: she’s inviting her students to look at her as a role model for a particular way to live out one’s ideological commitments.  Her topless photos are, it seems, clear evidence that Diana Blaine will not be bound by a traditional understanding of what is appropriate for a woman, a scholar, and a teacher.  I’m sure she hopes to give inspiration and encouragement to her students; judging from the laudatory reviews she’s received, she’s clearly succeeded.

If you hunt around in my photo albums, you’ll find a pic or two of me showing as much skin as Diana Blaine does.  I’ve put up a few pictures of me running (or collapsed after a run).  My male privilege allows me to put "topless" pics of myself on my blog without significant criticism.  Diana Blaine and I are a lot alike: two married UCLA Ph.Ds who teach gender studies and maintain blogs that mix the personal and the professional.  We both have pictures of our naked chests on display.  But for any number of reasons — most of which are rooted in the very sort of traditional mores that Blaine finds so troublesome — my bare chest is unremarkable while hers attracts calls from the Oprah show.  That is sexism at its most absurd.

Of course, I’ve made it clear on my blog that I am trying to do something fairly difficult: I’m trying to match a passionate commitment to the traditional goals of secular feminism with an even more passionate commitment to evangelical Christian faith.  On issues like abortion, for example, this has left me tied into knots of nuance where I end up alienating everyone with my tortured and self-indulgent ambivalence.  On other issues, such as pornography, my feminism and my faith lead me to precisely the same conclusion, and I can speak clearly.  On this blog (and sometimes in the classroom) I also talk about my own experiences with abortion and pornography.  My students deserve to know that I do match my language and my life — they need to know, too, that my theories are rooted both in intellectual inquiry and in personal experience. 

One of the classic battle-cries of feminism is that "the personal is political". In different ways, with differing views of feminism, Diana Blaine and I are both living that out in the conscious decision to blur the line between the public and the private self.  While I sense that she and I would differ on many issues, she has my full and complete support in her decision to reveal so much of herself — literally and figuratively — in her very public blog.

Alas, not all feminists are as approving of the personal decisions of their allies. In the comments section below Bitch Ph.D’s post on the subject of Diana’s blog, a "dr. igloo" writes:

…I personally find her feminist street cred slightly tarnished by the fact that she has apparently taken her husband’s last name. Is there really a credible feminist defense of this practice?

Aha.  So when Diana Blaine makes the CHOICE to put topless pictures of herself on her public blog, she’s a "good" feminist, but when she makes the CHOICE to create unity with her spouse by sharing the same last name, she’s a bad one?  Lordy, I hate the feminism police. 

UPDATE: I cross-posted at Cliopatria, and Diana Blaine responds there.  Inside Higher Ed weighs in here, and Margaret Soltan here. The last is rather nasty, I think; it’s easy to be snarky when faced with the mixture of brazenness and sincerity that Blaine offers on her blog.  (I’m happy to say that at one time, I was Soltan’s darling.)

It’s funny how protective I am of academics who are provocateurs, even when I try for the exact opposite effect.  If I’m trying to present any kind of an image here, it’s of a man who tries desperately to reconcile a number of contradictory impulses, and who longs to inspire rather than to inflame.  I’d rather be irenic than ironic, and rather reconcile than provoke.  But I stick up for my colleagues, almost regardless of their offense.  (Heck, I stuck up for Jacques Pluss — how could I not stand with Diana Blaine?)

New photos

I have managed to put a few photos up from our Colombia trip in this new album.

“A line through the ‘occupation box’”

A couple of photos from the weekend up hereProof I didn’t get the height.

In a follow-up to my post earlier today about the "involuntary childless", I’ve been meaning to link to this post from my friend John Sloas, a stay-at-home Dad and host of the "Crooked Line" blog. Here’s his short post in its entirety:

Recently I witnessed a burglary. When the policeman arrived he interviewed me and recorded my basic information on a form. He asked the usually stuff… name, address, phone number. When it came to occupation, I said “stay-at-home dad”. The officer hesitated and then put a line through the “occupation box”. I was a bit put off by that. I wonder, when he interviews a women does he do the same? Does he put “homemaker” or “at-home mom”? Or does she get the line through the box as well? I’m guessing she gets “homemaker”. I don’t think of myself as a homemaker because that is such a “feminine” title. In reality, it is what I am. But even I resist that title because of my own culturization. I guess the same way the title of “nurse” was, at one time, strange to refer to men–thus we always want to add “male” to clarify. So, I don’t really blame the officer in giving me the line through that box. I understand it. Society isn’t always sure what to do with men who stay home with the kiddos–we don’t fit into the established boxes.

Bold emphases are mine.  My hat is off to John — and to men like him.  We’ve still got work to do, though, both to help stay-at-home Dads embrace the title "homemaker" and to encourage the rest of the culture to help them to do it.

The almost sperm donor: an anecdote

First off, this new picture is of me with my darling sister.  This is not my wife (I’ve had four emails making that false assumption since last night)!  I’ve added a caption to make it clear.

Russell Fox has a nice post on progressive Christianity up, and he quotes from my post last Friday on the same subject. 

The still-active thread below my Wendy Wasserstein post has turned to the topic of the ethics of donating sperm.  In the absence of an argument, let me share an anecdote.

When I was a 20 year-old undergraduate at Berkeley, I saw an ad for sperm donors in the Daily Cal.  The ad promised $50-100 per week, and I wandered down to a little medical clinic on University Avenue to ask more questions.  I went in to a comfortable, modern little office, and was promptly asked to fill out a long form about my medical and family history, as well as about my academic background and personal appearance.  I was then handed a plastic cup with a lid (like those used to collect urine samples, and directed to a little room.  I "made a deposit" (the phrase used by the woman behind the counter), handed over the cup, and was told to call back later for results.  After all, I needed to find out if my sperm was "fit" enough!

I went back to my co-op, and because my ability to keep secrets at that time was nil, promptly shared my adventure with my housemates.  At dinner that night, I had about a dozen folks, men and women, weighing in on the subject of sperm donation.  Some encouraged me to continue to do it if I was accepted, while others warned me against it.  Some pointed out something in the brochure I hadn’t noticed:  regular "donors" were expected to "contribute" two to three times a week, and ought not to have ejaculated for 48 hours prior to the "donation."  (I don’t know if this is still the rule, but it was the requirement back in 1987.)  Explaining the math (my weak point then and now), my friends noted that that would put a serious crimp in my private life with my girlfriend!

But it was my housemate "Letty" who changed my mind for good.  Letty was a devout Catholic, and I was — at this time — on the cusp of converting.  She had been mentoring me in the faith, and though nothing romantic ever transpired between us, Letty and I were very close.  She gave me reading lists of Catholic books, and took me to mass at the Newman Centre.  Letty didn’t join in the teasing at dinner, but after the meal, asked to speak with me alone.  She talked with me about how I would feel in years to come, wandering down the street and looking curiously into children’s faces, never knowing if one might be my child.  "I know you, Hugo", Letty said; "That thought will haunt you forever."  She also gave me the standard but compelling spiel about the real meaning of conception.  Contrary to what I wrote in my Wasserstein post, Letty convinced me that each conceived child ought to be conceived in an act of marital love, with the promise that two loving parents would raise that which they created together.  She was so winsome and compelling, she had me nearly in tears.  And she changed my mind.  I never called the sperm bank to find out if they wanted me to be a regular donor.

Yes, the fear of not being able to have a regular sex life scared me.  But even though I was not living according to the Catholic ideal of premarital chastity, I still was moved by Letty’s thoughtful defense of church teaching about conception.  I was moved, too, by the very real fear of having children whose names I would never know, and whose strange yet familiar faces I might gaze at on the street with a mixture of dread and eagerness.

I haven’t worked out a coherent set of beliefs about artificial insemination.  But I am so glad I didn’t become a regular donor back in 1987.  Had I done so, some of my current frosh might literally be my children, a thought too strange and terrifying to contemplate for long.

Schwyzer photos

It’s Sunday, and I don’t normally post on Sundays.  I do promise a post on Betty Friedan for early this coming week.  I have very strong and, frankly, very mixed feelings about her legacy, and promise to share soon. 

In this album are five photos taken yesterday; we went up to Santa Barbara, to spend time with my Dad, stepmom, sister, uncle George (visiting from Manhattan) and my aunt Christa (visiting from Austria).   I like this one with my little sis and this one of five Schwyzers

Off for many things, including Super Bowl party shopping.

A note about blogging and pictures

I’ve made great progress on my grading today, so I’ll slip in a post.

Jill has been the subject of some really nasty Internet attacks, the sort that tend to focus on demeaning remarks about personal appearance.  Jill, like her co-blogger at Feministe, Lauren, has links to personal photos on their shared site.

This raises the delicate question  of the "embodied blogger".  To what extent do our pictures — and the assumptions and judgments our readers make about our face and bodies as a result — affect the impact of our blogs?  There seems to be a widespread notion (one that I can’t prove) that female bloggers who are thought of as "hot" have a larger readership.  (If anyone has any further stats on the matter, please provide!)   If true, this wouldn’t be surprising given our cultural obsession with women’s beauty, but it does raise some interesting questions for those of us who blog explicitly as feminists or pro-feminists.

Lauren offers a forthright explanation of why she and Jill put up their photos:

We don’t put our pictures up to be considered fuckable, we put our pictures up so that people can put a face to our writing. I appreciate this as a reader of many blogs and I’m sure others feel the same. While that does leave us open to be judged on our appearances, I never expected to be commented upon in such a wide sphere.

I’ll be the first to agree that pictures do help readers to "put a face" to writing, and I’m generally of a mind that that’s a good thing.  I know that whether I’m reading men’s blogs or women’s, I like knowing what the person who has written a post looks like.  Many bloggers don’t have pictures available, of course, and so I simply imagine in my head what they look like.  On more than one occasion, I’ve been stunned by the gulf between the real and the imagined writer when an image finally does appear!

Like Lauren, Jill, Trish, Amanda, and other feminist bloggers, I’ve been attacked by "trolls" who’ve said some fairly nasty things about me.  But though I have close to a hundred pictures of me in my photo albums, none of my critics ever go after my weight or my looks.   None of the MRAs have called me "ugly" or "fat" or anything similar.  A year ago, this picture elicited ridicule — but not scorn for my body.   This silence about my appearance is not a compliment to me as an individual, but rather a function of male privilege.

The attacks on my see-saw picture last year were not about my body or my face — they were about my engaging in an "unmanly" activity.  Trolls, you see, attack men for acting in ways that aren’t congruent with generally accepted standards of masculinity; they attack women for their weight and their looks.  In that sense, I — and other male bloggers whose photos are up — are protected from the kind of nastiness directed towards Jill at the moment.  Though my MRA (men’s rights advocate) critics have often been vicious towards me, they have never used the kind of highly personal and sexualized invective they direct towards the women at Feministe and other feminist blogs.  Yes, folks, once again a kind of perverse male privilege protects someone like me. Somehow, it seems that even among trolls, a code of conduct bars insulting remarks about other men’s bodies.

There are many reasons why I don’t put up photos of my wife.  One reason, however, is because I want to protect her from the kind of scrutiny that I am aware she would be instantly subjected to were I to do so.  My wife’s looks are far more likely to be judged than mine, and remarks about her appearance would then be connected to me. If she’s perceived as too pretty, my feminist credentials would be challenged.  If she’s perceived as unattractive, she’ll be ridiculed. I won’t expose either of us to that.

I do put up lots of pictures of me (and even more of my chinchilla.)  I do this to share quickly with family and friends, but also, as Lauren says, so that people can put a face to my writing.  I do think that pictures help humanize us.  Who among us hasn’t carefully studied the face of an author on a dust jacket of a favorite new book, looking for insight and clues about their "real" identity?  At the same time, I regret that women — particularly feminist women — who choose to provide visual images risk both sexualized objectification and ugly ridicule.   Jill’s post today is ample evidence of that.

Grading and not much else.

I promise a serious post tomorrow.  Today is devoted to grading, grading, and grading. Several new photos in this album, however.

New album…

Regular posting resumes Monday, but some new pics that we took this week are up in Matilde’s new album.  If you know chinnies, you know how rare a shot this is.

Quick note about nepotism

First off, I’ve posted a few pics from this past weekend’s reunion.

I’m about to get myself in trouble again.   As regular readers know, I helped develop PCC’s consensual relationships policy last year.  (See here.)  Now, I’ve been asked by the Academic Senate to chair a related committee looking into revamping the college’s "nepotism" policy.  The problem is that some of my colleagues don’t want to prohibit what I consider to be one of the most flagrant examples of nepotism: having one’s own children enrolled in one’s classes, and grading their work.

I’ve been adamant about the issue of consensual amorous relationships.  I don’t think it’s possible for a professor to evaluate fairly the work of his or her spouse or lover.   Even if it were possible (and I don’t think it is), the simple perception of wrongdoing that would arise in the minds of the other students is reason enough to consider such relationships between teachers and current students to be inadvisable and unethical.  In the years we spent developing the policy (between 2001-2004), my colleagues and I encountered some opposition to the idea of banning faculty-current student romantic and sexual relationships, but most folks on campus seemed supportive.

But here at the community college, I can think of several examples — from within my own department — of young people enrolled in a parent’s course.  One of my colleagues has taught three of her four children in recent years.  This problem is much more common at a community college than it might be at a four-year school, where many students are living away from home.  At PCC, a large percentage of our students still live with Mom or Dad, and in more than a few instances, are being taught by Mom or Dad.

I’ve been making the argument for years that teaching and evaluating one’s children is analogous to teaching and grading one’s lovers.  I see no reason to believe that you can be fairer to your child than to your sexual partner.  What’s more, while it is at least theoretically possible to keep one’s romantic affairs a secret, it’s utterly impossible to disguise the fact that one student is your son or daughter!  And again, there’s the issue of perception: it doesn’t ultimately matter whether or not you can separate family loyalties from the quality of a student’s work; what matters is whether or not other students perceive a bias.

I’ve been candid about my own reasons for getting involved in developing a consensual relationships policy.  I’ve admitted past wrongdoing in this area, and I’ve made amends.  But a few of my colleagues are vigorously defending the idea that while it may be unethical to teach a lover, it is perfectly acceptable to assign grades to one’s own children.  I am dumbfounded, failing to understand the reasoning that suggests that there is ultimately anything less offensive about having one’s child in class than having one’s sexual partner.  In informal discussions with other colleagues, I have found that the majority take my side and support the idea of a ban on PCC faculty members teaching and evaluating the work of their own children.  Such a ban, like the consensual relationships policy, would not involve any retroactive discipline for those who had taught their kids in the past.  But it would draw a clear and bright line for the future.

I’m curious to know what my readers think.   Do you agree with me that teaching one’s kids is as unethical and problematic, both in terms of evaluation and perception, as teaching one’s sexual and romantic partners?  If not, why not?  Am I missing something here, perhaps because I am not yet a parent?  In the meantime, while I await your responses, I’m going to work hard to make sure that the nepotism policy comes down as firmly as possible against the practice of profs teaching and grading their own children.

Ignoring a rodent warning in the name of love

As a lover of all things rodent, I note with some concern the news about the apparent link between contact with small furry creatures and serious cases of salmonella poisoning:

Furry "pocket pets" like hamsters, mice and rats have sickened up to 30 people in at least 10 states with dangerous multidrug-resistant bacteria, health officials are warning.

It is the first known outbreak of salmonella illness tied to such pets and reveals a previously unknown public health risk, officials said in a report released Thursday.

Many of the victims were children; six were hospitalized for vomiting, fever and severe diarrhea. Some passed the illness to others. The germ they had was resistant to five drugs spanning several classes of antibiotics.

The articles I’ve found online mention gerbils, hamsters, rats, ferrets, and rabbits.  Not  chinchillas, but of course, chins are less common as household pets.  What’s particularly awful is one of the recommendations the Centers for Disease Control has issued:

Owners should not kiss their pets or hold them close to their mouths…

Yeah, right.  I suppose what I’m doing in this picture is now out!  Matilde gives the sweetest and gentlest kisses, and I’d gladly risk anything for them.  I even broke my "no blogging on the weekend" rule to make that clear to everyone.  She’s asleep at the moment, but tonight, just before her dust bath, she’ll get lots of kisses.

Special announcement!

Many new Matilde pictures are up!  This is my fav.

Taking down the album, and another follow-up

Dylan wrote beneath my Monday post on the fast that she was concerned about my publicly posting pictures of All Saints teens.  As she suggested might be the case, our church does indeed have a policy against publishing photographs of our teens, and I have hidden the album that had been up since Monday. (For the youth group kids, you can still email me and I’ll send them to you directly.)  Just when I think I know all there is to know about youth work, I find out something new.  Thanks, Dylan, for raising the issue! 

In the comments below this post we have gotten sidetracked into a discussion of what is "natural", and I’ve been forced to admit that when it comes to the discussion of the biological explanations for earlier adolescent development, I am at a loss. It’s also unfortunate, because I agree with what most of the commenters are saying, which is that we have to do as much as possible to address the social factors that lead to the early sexualization of adolescents.

It’s a busy day, and so I don’t have much time to work up a good post.   I am reminded, just from the comments section, of how many very young women experience being objectified by much older men.  The stories the commenters relate match those I hear from my students.  We have a culture that celebrates the erotic potential of those still in puberty, and sees children as appropriate fodder for male fantasy (and in the worst cases, male action.)  It’s absurd to place the blame on either girls’ bodies or the fashions they wear without challenging men to change the way in which they respond to the young and the vulnerable.

I don’t know how to work with pedophiles.  I’m not trained for it.  Those folks require a specialized kind of care that most men’s movement activists cannot provide.  But I do know how to work with "normal guys" who might find themselves responding with sexual arousal to teenage girls.  It’s these men, fellows whose conscience is alive and well, who can be reached.   It’s those men I’m interested in targeting and challenging.  I’m not asking them to deny their sexual responses; I’m asking them to channel those urges towards more appropriate outlets.  On a basic level, that means working to help men "de-eroticize"adolescents and helping them to respond enthusiastically (with arousal and desire) to adult women whose agency and maturity matches their own.  (Ideally, of course, that sexual energy — even in thought — would be devoted almost entirely to their partner.)  Beyond peer-to-peer mentoring and prayer, I don’t quite know how to accomplish that.  But I am damn sure it’s a worthy goal!

More another time.

Notes, bicycles, sidewalks

‘Twas a busy and very happy weekend.

New pics of Matilde (and her papa) will appear shortly in her album.  I’ve been informed by the good folks at Pet Homes for Ranchies that it is important to limit the number of nuts that chinchillas take in.  Apparently, nuts are difficult for their livers to process.  SO, it’s lots of hay and the occasional raisin from now on…  so far, she hasn’t complained.

We saw Hotel Rwanda and Being Julia over the weekend.  For different reasons, both are highly recommended.  The former, despite its predictability, was intensely moving — and yes, shaming.  The latter was an unabashed delight, and I will be pulling very hard for Annette Bening to win the best actress Oscar.  I’ll explain why in a subsequent post.

I’m thinking this morning about bicycles and affluence and sidewalks.  Let me explain.

My fiancee and I live in northwest Pasadena, in a neighborhood that is largely Hispanic and African-American.  In our part of town, it is extremely common to encounter young men of color riding bicycles on the sidewalk. In the mornings, one sees dozens of them riding off to work, often wearing work uniforms.  In the evenings, they can be seen riding home in equally large numbers.  To avoid the fellows on bikes when we’re both on the sidewalk, many times I’ve had to jump out of the way.  I’ve seen more than one pedestrian-bicyclist collision. 

A few years ago, I struck and injured a young man on a bicycle here in the neighborhood.  I was making a legal right on red late in the evening, and he was speeding along the sidewalk (where I was not looking) and raced into the intersection just as I was turning. He ended up on my hood; his bike was knocked into the road.  I leapt out of the car and ran to his aid.  I had no cell phone.  He spoke no English, and my Spanish then (as now) was very poor.  I told him I wanted to take him to the hospital, and he became agitated.  He limped over to his bike (which had a badly bent frame), picked it up, and started to hobble off.  I ran after him, and not knowing what else to do, gave him all the money I had in my wallet.  He took it, mumbled something, and kept going.  I wasn’t prepared to physically stop him, and I understood his reluctance to see a doctor — though he was clearly hurt.  I’m better now about checking the sidewalks when I’m turning in this part of town!

I’ve never seen any of these young men wearing helmets.  I have no doubt that they can’t afford them.  I am certain that the primary reason that they are riding bikes on the sidewalk (rather than the street) is that they lack the protective gear that wealthier cyclists are able to wear.  They are far less well-defended against traffic than are my fiancee and I.

This morning, my beloved and I went for a ride in the hills.  I rode my Trek, she rode her Cannondale.   While our bikes are not state-of-the-art, they are legitimate road bikes with carbon fiber frames and triple chain cranks and all the other modern cycling amenities.  We had our gloves, our special seats, our Shimano bike clips, and of course, our $130 Bell helmets.  Of course, we rode in the street, with the traffic.  Our bikes are fast enough and sufficiently maneuverable for us to do so.  We are well-protected (as much as humanly possible) against injury.  It is our relative wealth, not our superior respect for the law, that allows us to stay off the sidewalks.

Neither of us commutes to work on a bike.  For us, cycling is a sport, a recreation, a pleasure.   For our neighbors, bikes are an absolute necessity,  often the only means of transportation.    I am confident that if they had the equipment with which to ride safely in the street as we do, they would do so.  Perhaps some local charity exists where helmets can be donated.  But until the day that my fellow riders are as fortunate and well-equipped as I, I’ll continue to be willing to move out of their way on the sidewalks, honoring both their necessity and my privilege.

UPDATE:  My fiancee gently notes that she has a double chain crank, not a triple.